Compare to different erotic kinks there are only few references about erotic fighting, but the issues are not new. Maybe from the time of the Greek wrestling matches, erotic battles were introduce. But until now, the elements on erotic fighting still vary to different individuals.Today when we refer to erotic battles, wrestling matches, amazons, and catfights sometimes come to our mind. But what makes a battle erotic?
Different people may agree or disagree in the ideas but I would just like to state MY ideas on the subject. Well, if you asked me, a truly erotic battle must be between sexy opponents. That makes fighting erotic whether it’s M vs. M, F vs. F or Mixed Fights. Most cater on just being KOed in the battle, not really dying but mine involves death (in a fantasy way).
Erotic fighting involves sexual fantasies. Maybe it’s the sight of sweaty bodies hitting each other or those sexy grunts , those “ahhhh”, “ohhh” and “uhhggg” that comes out of their mouth every time a fist, a punch, a kick or a karate chop landed on their sweaty bodies.
But surely this topic is quite familiar to all of you, so let’s talk about what I consider to be NOT an erotic fighting idea.
Some of those who are involved in this kind of fetish love to humiliate the opponent. These humiliations are sometimes to the extremes. Frankly speaking, I’m not into these kind of fetish (the type that involves pissing someone’s face, defecation, or putting things on their sex organ) I don’t know, some people find this kinky. I don’t, PERIOD! It is enough to render an opponent unconscious, to strip her/him naked or near nakedness and then to touch the defeated opponent’s body. HECK! You can even use it for your sexual needs. That’s OK and I find it quite appealing. BUT, if you will smother the defeated opponent with things that can only be found on the nearest septic tank, NOW THAT’S GROSS! Beautiful bodies are respected for their form, not to be use as a toilet bowl.
Now, other “sexual battle” involves more gory scenes (Not my field!), like blood, innards and disembowelment. I even saw this sight that shows real footages or pictures of dead soldiers in battlefields or crime-scene photos of rape victims, even car accident victims. HEY! I’m into sexual combat not CSI.
Sword battle can be considered kinky. Let say that a babe or a muscle hunk was stabbed with little amount of blood to be shown, That’s OK. But if it involves all those things found in medical schools and anatomy books…You call that sexy? Leave that on the operating table and anatomy class. I really don’t find disembowelment sexy. Why? Oh come on! Common sense dictates that when you see beautiful naked bodies to be sliced up or gutted up like a fish or thanks giving turkey, sexiness will never come to your mind; instead I see it as an object of absolute pity, disgust and loathing.
Now we come to other familiar stories I sometimes read in the internet today. OK here goes. ” A sexy girl kicks a handsome man in the face. BOOOMMM!!! All his teeth flew to different directions and his jaw bone protrudes. His jaw line was re-arranged to a weird angle. Some of the sinews of his mouth stick to the nearest white wall…Blood, guts, boogers and all…” Now does this scenario makes you wet? It makes me barf!
The story is more likely from a QuentinTarantino film and it can make a B-rated, prosthetic horror films fan very excited but it’s not sexy. Sadly, there are a lot of those who love to include gory descriptions to sexual fight scene. Not me, mind you! Reading a story that describes a male sex organ that was crushed or grinded like ground beef inside a woman’s pussy is nauseating. In the first place, a woman’s love box is not a monster’s mouth or a mangling machine.
Blows that produce a distinct amount of blood are OK, but you don’t want the character to look like “Carrie”, do you? A trickle of blood that runs in the opponent’s sweaty frame is already quite erotic.
And last but not least. Please…desecration of the opponent’s genital (like putting things on the opponent’s pussy and cutting someone’s dick and feeding it to the owner) and those who involves children on their sexual stories is not titillating. I find it abhorrent and grossly unacceptable. Only those with sick mind find it appealing.
So there, I hope that clarifies my stand.
Tasha M.